Cock rings are toys worn around the base of the penis, says Finn. They restrict blood flow to help sustain erections, and can even delay and/or intensify orgasms, she adds. They come in various sizes, so ensure you grab a size that’s comfortable for you and isn’t too constricting, says Oriowo. Vibrating cock rings are also a popular option, especially during penetrative sex as it stimulates both the wearer and their partner, says Finn.
How To Use This Toy: Stretch the cock ring over the base of the penis and, if applicable, the testicles, says Dr. Toubi. Because cock rings depend so much on personal preference, try it out solo first, before incorporating it into your partnered play, Finn suggests. “You want to make sure that the ring is snug enough to hold in the blood flow, but not tight enough where it’s uncomfortable or cutting off the circulation of the penis,” she says. FYI: If a cock ring ever makes your member feel numb or is hurting you, that’s a clear sign to take it off immediately.
When it comes to partnered play, if you’re wearing a condom, the ring should go over the condom not under it, says Oriowo. If you’re using a vibrating cock ring, you also want to make sure the speed and rhythm of the vibrations work for both partners involved, Oriowo adds. Oh, and ICYDK, cock rings don’t actually require a cock. “Vibrating rings can turn any dildo or internal vibrator into your own customizable rabbit vibe! These also slip easily over a couple fingers for any play where you are using your digits,” says Finn.
How To Care For This Toy: It depends on the cock ring, but in general, mild soap and warm water should do the trick. Make sure you clean inside the ring as well as outside, says Oriowo. And if there’s a vibrating portion, wipe that down, too.